Chapter 6 Angels in Relationships

CHAPTER 6 ANGELS IN RELATIONSHIPS

from Raphael’s Tao of Relationship.

There is One.

Then there is Polarity.

There is Heaven.There is Earth.

There are Angels. There are humans.

There is a feeling. 

This feeling may be yearning, longing to return, to go Home. 

The life mission is called bringing Heaven to Earth. 

It is the Return of the One.

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There may be separation. The feeling may be called ‘separation anxiety’ It is trauma and shock

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And sometimes there is a third

Male and female are a polarity. Each is yearning for oneness; for completion. They have an urge. There is an engagement, Creativity flows. There is union. Then there is release. This is Alchemy

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An angel brings two into dance. That is relationship. Polarities intertwine. Creations begin.

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This is a couple. Maybe mother and father, to be.

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The angel is the guide of the relationship, (not the child). It lends its body to one or the other, And the interchange begins. This is intimacy. It is revelation. It is the Magic.

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To continue the magic, go back to the angel, fall into line. The times are a-changing.

Be impeccable. 

Commit to respond 

as angel inspiration

 follows angel inspiration.

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Be open to completion. Recognize truth. The angel of weddings will appear. Marriage will be achieved.

Commentaries on The Tao of relationship

From the Angels

We are all in it. We are in relationships and we are sex. We are all lovers. We have been since time began. We created the Man / Sun / gold, and the Woman / Moon / silver – to link arms and embrace, heaven and earth. We created out of polarity. This made us free. We now enjoy you.

Our primary relationship is with our Self. This has to be. No relationship with our self means no relationship with our other selves. We must keep the peace. Our joy is with us and when we are with us we are with our joy, it is our joy and no-one can steal it. We can lose ourselves, we can lose our love, or seem to. But the love is not lost and the joy is not lost. It is waiting for us to return. We have come a long way by many highways and byways. And then we Return. And our joy grows and grows like a flower that is nurtured, like a garden.

As we tend the garden we find our other selves, flowering, blossoming; bees attending to their perfume. These are our expansion in love, our other unfoldments. Secondary, rich and rewarding. These are our Turnings, lovers in the dance of light. These are relationships.

I have a relationship with my angel. He is my friend. I am his friend. He learns from me. I learn from him. He is coming onto Earth and into Earth. I am coming into Heaven, on Earth. I am blessed. He offers blessing. As all angels do.

A man’s and a woman’s relationship with this world in sexuality is a mystery that we may know. All creatures have male and female, like us. All plants and trees, maybe all rocks. This is especially evident in crystals. It is polarity. There are things which go in and things which are entered into. And then there are Bridgings.

Each relationship between a man and a woman has an angel. This is the intelligence of the uniting force. If you are in a relationship you can experience that angel. You can learn to communicate with it, and take joy in the dance of its evolution. When you are stuck in your relationship, dance this angel and surrender, let it open you to its needs, even if it is to return (separate).

We move along in eddies and whirlpools, songs from within, blessings. Uniting, disuniting. Engaging and disengaging. All as one.

Story of John and Rosemara

They decided to communicate with their relationship angel. One would be speaking out loud then the other would chime in with what the angel had to say to them. It was beautiful to watch, to take part in and see the complementarity of the communication. They were not saying the same but it was clear that both were a part of the same. It was very revealing and empowering and a deep bonding was occurring. It was a wedding of sorts.

Remember that the angel does not create the difficulties. The angels will always be there even through the bad dreams. It will be itching to bring them into Light.

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We want Heaven. We have Earth. We need to change our Heaven, and our Earth to bring them into One. Heaven gets a little closer to Earth.

Earth gets a little closer to Heaven. We get a little closer to our partner. We get a little closer to our self. We get closer to our Other (our Angel).

Angel says he wants to show me his memory for intimacy

One evening Raphael suddenly said, ’I want to show you my memory’. I said ‘Why?’, I was a little taken aback. He said ‘It’s to do with intimacy. I’ll show you something of mine and you will be more inclined to trust me.’ For many years afterwards I wondered what ‘angel memory’ was. I thought it meant his past. I would often have an experience during the day and later view as a flashback the same scene from the angel’s perspective. I realized that this was the angel’s memory. Sometimes he would show me what he had been doing that day. I would see through his eyes.

ANGELS AND THE SHADOW

When the inner shadow is transformed it becomes the angel. My ‘shadow’ has then become my angel.

When the angel’s outer shadow is transformed, it becomes me. I am the angel’s shadow.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Cutting the chords that bind

There are light chords connecting us one to the other. They define the limits of the bonding. For true freedom call on Michael with his sword to sever the ties, be it to the future or to the past. Ask to throw light on any promises or consent that may allow resistance.

Bonding and Mateship

A ship carries you across an ocean. Mateship is a friendship that carries you across an ocean of aloneness though in the end you must be one.

Angels and Sex

Daniel was about eighteen. In a photograph of his girlfriend there had appeared a light above her head and a large rainbow circle around her. He said, ‘When we embrace it is as if we both have angel’s wings, and they wrap around each other.’

Ann says, ‘I have experienced them operating creatively through sexuality. (After all many people are seeking for their angel as a sexual partner or angel escort.) I have experienced the energy ecstasy of communion with an angel operating in the sexual chakra, alone and with a partner. And together we have ascended into higher realms as the angels came through us in love in the body.’ 

You may consider the sexual union of Christ and Mary Magdalene as a spiritual perfection of the sexual act.

Another friend says, “Sometimes my husband has to go off and have angel sex, sometimes we have it together. It is so beautiful”. 

Sexuality and creativity are very close. After all a conception is an act of creation. To conceive an idea and to conceive a child takes the same energy potential. It is a beginning, the germination of a new seed.

A lady writes of angel sex:

‘As we made love I felt the spiritual and physical connection of the chakras – starting with heart to base, then heart to crown. Hand and feet chakras also locked in. I felt the interaction of the base chakra and I drew my partner into my secret cave. As we continued to make love, as in a pool the angel Raphael and Auralia appeared above us too, making love – the Christ /Kundalini energy became intense and I drew it up through the chakras. Suddenly it swept through me like a child-birth where the body takes over. I felt drawn through the love-making then through the angels love-making, and ascended to heaven, where my partnership with this lover was blessed by the hands of God. The angels were singing and joyous as if it were the Marriage of the Angels. Angel sex, a blessed gift’.

Another lady talks of having sex with an angel!!

‘After I dreamed of flying with Archangel Michael I woke up. He was at the foot of my bed in the form of a giant Dove. His wings and feathers were in a flurry of frantic passion and urgency. It turned me on sexually. It was very erotic. We then made passionate love. While we were sexing, his wings were also fluttering very fast above me. It made me feel special. I was disappointed when he said that this was not going to be a regular thing, that this was a special time. Perhaps we will have an angel baby!!!’

The development of the Angel body requires some commitment to honouring and permission asking. 

This is beyond fantasy.

When sexuality includes the angel body an added dimension of pleasure and intimacy is achieved. Listening to the angel as it weaves between the two takes us on that journey into sexual union. When you know that, life is ecstasy, each moment is a revelation. This is mystical union.

Fantasy needs to be created anew and it is it’s own pleasure.

Attraction

Often people are attracted together if their angel is the same. They instantly feel comfortable with each other. If they are expressing aspects of the angel, have developed aspects of that angel, there is instant sharing through the angel’s body, a sharing that goes beyond words. It is, ‘I’ll show you what I’ve got, you show me what you’ve got’. They grow from each other. They realize their limitations and how the other one has found a way to express it.

Each angel has many aspects so we have many angel aspects to meet. This is exciting.

With Raphael, the networking of these people is called the ‘Rose of Raphael’ which may have origins in the Order of the Rosecross or the Rosicrucions. The rose is a flower whose essence is pure spirit. So it is a network of pure spirit. Here is a secret revealed.

Angels may come when you are inspired or using intuition.

NEGOTIATION

There are some earthly problems that the heavenly agents cannot intervene with directly. There are always earthbound fragments that need to be unraveled and matured. They will cause havoc as they interact. It will take the angel agents, those with a gift of seeing into heaven to recognize them and the angel shaman or angel counsellor to deal with them, and invite full earthly incarnation. In relationships, there will need to be negotiations rather than compromise and clear demarcation lines asserted. The love will bring its resistance into the Light. A battle may be fought before resolution and peace is achieved. Clear rules of battle need to be established. Each relationship will then have an earthly aspect and a heavenly aspect. The one must be transforming into the other for a future and a past to coexist.

Call on the Goddess to assist in achieving harmony in these power spurts.

Spontaneous Angel Relating

Ways to look for the angel operating in relationships:

You pick up the phone to ring your friend and they are on the other end calling you.

You both say the same thing at the same time or say, ‘I was going to say  that’ .

Your guest book is empty. (uninvited guest spirits are not around)

You think of someone and see them that same day.

You have a hunch and it turns out right.

You have a feeling to go to a certain place and you meet someone there.

You have a feeling to go a different way than usual and find out later there was a road block.

You put certain clothes on then when you meet your friend they are wearing the same clothes and the same colours.

You turn the radio on just as your favourite song plays.

You go around a corner and run into someone you’ve been trying to avoid.

You have to pinch yourself to see if you are awake.

You open the curtains just as the neighbour walks out naked.

You look up just as another person looks up and your eyes meet for a moment.

You lose a sock and it turns up 6 months later in the place where you had searched everywhere for it.

You write to a friend and get a reply back the next day. (They wrote theirs before you wrote yours.)

You and your lover arrive at the intersection at the same time.

You wake up in the morning and your shoes are not in the place you left them before you went to sleep.

You are in another city knowing only one person in that city. You find yourself standing in the lunch queue next to them.